To Fear Or Not To Fear

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mikelao/135612867/ I live in a community paralyzed with fear.

Well that’s not completely true, but the fact is that our community, this place called Antioch, a suburb of Nashville, finds itself at a crossroads driven primarily by fear.

The fears are many: the fear of crime, the fear of others who aren’t like us, the fear of economic downturn, the fear that we are being left behind. These fears lead some to leave the community, to contribute to urban sprawl as the move further out only to take the problems with them rather than addressing the fear that led them to leave. The voices of fear are many, misusing statistics and anecdotes in their narrative of negativity. In fact, many of the fears are based in the world of perception and not reality, images and stories that are much more myths than fact. Certainly, there are issues of concern in our community, but these issues are not always as rampant as some might think.

The question for people of faith is what do we do with our fear.

After all, the scriptures seem to suggest that fear is not a part of the life of faith. Paul said it clearly that love casts out fear, and he lived that example in his willingness to be imprisoned and tortured for the gospel. Likewise, the early Christian martyrs lived a radical faith which allowed them to face persecution and death boldly.

But somewhere along the way, Christians, especially those of us in places of safety and security, lost our boldness. We often find ourselves living and hiding in fear, enclaves unto our selves where we maintain our sense of well being. Very rarely are we willing to take radical risks for the sharing of God’s love with the world, and when we do, those risks are often seen as aberrant behavior.

Of course, fear is a normal human emotion. We are programmed through both nature and nurture to fear harmful things as a mechanism for our own protection. Fear at many levels is an important thing to listen to, for to lack fear entirely is to fall into recklessness.

Yet, fear seems to get away from us. It runs out of control, being amplified to the point where it can overcome our lives and lead us to inaction. Uncontrolled fear makes us forget the power and love of God which helps to overcome that fear. And, fear quickly moves into paranoia and mistrust, separating us from others which ultimately harms our relationship with the Creator.

Don’t get me wrong, for I am not trying to suggest that we all don’t get scared from time to time. Those scares are warning sings to watch out and be on our guard.

But fear is something different entirely, for is separates us from one another.

So, to live in fear or not to live in fear.

I guess that is the question.

Photo courtesy of MikeLao26 via Flickr

A Blast from the Past

WKRP In Cincinnatti was one of the great shows of my youth, and this particular episode is one that I always remember. Enjoy.

more about “A Blast from the Past“, posted with vodpod

Perception and Reality

I live in a community with a bad reputation. We are considered by the rest of Nashville to be a community with a “gang problem,” a community with high crime rates, a community which is in great decline.

The problem is that this reputation is not deserved. In fact, the overall crime rate in our community is down from last year, and there isn’t as much of a gang problem as believed, and while businesses are indeed closing, there is still a lot of vitality and room for growth.

Such if the difference between perception and reality, and in the end, perception almost always wins.

Antioch, the area I serve and live in, suffers from a perception problem. It isn’t based in reality, in fact, much of the perception is probably based in latent racism in a diverse community. But it doesn’t matter if it is true or not, for perceptions often are much more successful at shaping reality than reality is at changing perceptions.

The issue of perception, and what I would call “perceptual intuition” is a huge issue for church leaders, and one that I think often gets missed. Again and again I will hear some church leader in trouble with his or her congregation based in a wrong perception that has been transformed into reality along the way. Again and again I have seen my colleagues in ministry do stupid stuff because they never considered how their acts would be perceived.

Perceptual intuition does two things: it asks “what if,” and it attempts to get into the head of others so that we might anticipate their reaction to what we are telling them.

We have some work to do to overcome this in our community, but I am convinced that it is possible if we will take care to sharpen our perceptual chops and listen closely.

A Song for Year 48

Quick Question

We are doing some revamping of our care ministries in the church for folks who are no longer able to attend worship or participate in church activities due to physical and emotional limitations. We generally have called these persons “homebound” or “shut-ins,” however these terms don’t fully reflect the diversity of situations that we are addressing, and I was wondering if your congregation has come up with a better way of describing who these persons are. They aren’t inactive members, for they desire to be active, and one of the things that we are looking at in this ministry is ways that folks can be involved in the work of the church even when they can’t leave the house. Leave your comments with suggestions for a new category name for these persons.

Da Crowes Song of the Week — Soul Singing

I confess that I am a big fan of the Black Crowes, a band that probably would have reached greater heights if Chris and Rich Robinson could have simply got along. Well, I guess that’s the way it is with brothers.

Here’s one of my favorites, played on the Letterman show. I like the original video better, but YouTube struggles with playing it so here is the Letterman version instead.

10 Minute Review — The Shack

Well who knows how long it will last, but here is the first in what I hope will become part of a series of podcast reviews on “The Shack,” by William P. Young.

Review #1 — The Shack

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